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Hettie Tilghman (photo Oakland Tribune) and her grave |
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Hettie Blonde Tilghman
was born in San Francisco in 1873 to early pioneers Captain John Jones and his wife Rebecca. Her father was in charge of ammunition and rifles for the San Francisco Vigilante Committee housed at The Armory. She was the
youngest of three daughters and attended school in San Francisco, where she
lived until she was about fourteen years old. [Some sources list her birth as 1871].
Around 1887, her
family relocated to Oakland, where she would remain for the rest of her life.
In 1890, she married Charles F. Tilghman and they moved in with his
mother, Lucinda. At the time of her marriage, she was an organist and
secretary of the Bethel A.M.E. Church of San Francisco. The couple had two children, Hilda and Charles.
In addition to
her involvement in the church, she ran a private language school out of
her San Francisco home, where her
parents were still living. It was in this home that she taught English
to local Chinese students.
Hettie
retired from teaching shortly after Hilda's birth. After Charles and
Hilda enrolled in school, Hettie
became active in public life once again, participating in a variety of
clubs and community building projects. She also served on the board of
the Home for Aged and Infirm Colored People, which was opened in 1897
near Mills College. In 1917, she was elected president of the California State Federation of Colored Women's Clubs, a post she held until 1919.
Hettie Tilghman had a
lifelong commitment to service for the African-American community.
Tilghman became the financial secretary for the Northern Federation of
California Colored Women's Clubs after its creation in 1913. The
Northern Federation was an organization composed of Northern
California's many arts, education, and
advancement clubs created by and for women of color. This organization
was largely in response to the widespread exclusion of non-whites from
existing groups.
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Fannie Wall Children's Home |
Tilghman worked closely with civic leader and activist Fannie Wall, raising money between 1914 to 1918 to fund the opening of the Fannie Wall Children's
Home and Day Nursery in West Oakland – the only daycare and orphanage
facility available to children of color in that area at the time. After
the success of the first Children's Home in meeting the needs of
lower-class children and families, Tilghman worked to launch and manage a
"Colored" YWCA establishment, and
contributed to the operation of a second children's care facility. This
second facility was one that required significantly more capital to open
so this is an impressive accomplishment. The YWCA served
African-American members by providing academic and occupational
training, as well as entertainment and
special events for younger girls. The second location for the
Children's Home was ultimately taken over by the Oakland Redevelopment
Authority.
During WWI, she also raised money and collected the names of all of the black soldiers who had been drafted into the war and organized the first reception for "colored troops," as the Oakland Tribune referred to them at the time.
In the 1920s, Tilghman
took on a major leadership role alongside African-American women in the
League of Women Voters (LWV), and was chosen to be president of the
Alameda County League of
Colored Women Voters. In both organizations, Tilghman advocated for laws
that would address the unique needs of women and children.
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Daughter Hilda Tilgman (Image: SF Call) |
She was also
elected president of the Fannie Wall Children's Home and Day Nursery in
the early 1920s. Around the same time she also took charge of the Oakland
branch of the NAACP. Thirty-six years after her death, her son Charles was honored by the NAACP for his contributions to the organization. He owned a printing business in Oakland. In 1906, her daughter Hilda led the effort to raise money to help restore African-American chruches destroyed by the earthquake and fire, as well as assist with the rebuilding of homes within the community.
Throughout the 1920s, she was active in the
women's suffrage movement, and her political involvement continued until
her death in Alameda in September 1933.
Sources: The Negro Trail Blazers of California (1919), Biography of Hettie Blonde Tilghman by Pat Roberts, Oakland Tribune, Ancestry.com, San Francisco Call